L is for the lies they keep spilling, O is for oh great, Adele wrote another sad love song, V is for Valentine’s Day because seriously, what a joke, and E is for eating cake so I don’t lose it. Can everyone just stop talking already? The cringiest day of the year is sneaking up on us again. Valentine’s Day. Ugh.
Ehhhh! What’s Valentine’s Day? Do we even know where February 14th is on our calendar?
The Key Takeaway.
- S is for the sappy couples everywhere,
- I is for ignoring all their PDA flair,
- N is for Netflix, your true Valentine,
- G is for getting snacks and sipping wine,
- L is for literally no one texting you,
- E is for enjoying your own damn company.
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Let’s talk about this Valentine’s Day drama. It’s like, if you don’t have a partner, you’re some sad, lonely person, with about 60 empty plates of ice cream, living like it’s the end of the world. But that’s not what Valentine’s Day was even about. It started with old-school rituals and a guy who stood up to an emperor that hated love. Back then, it was about fighting for love and surviving and not this fake, glittery show where being single feels like a failure.
Now, the world acts like Valentine’s Day is all about proving you’re loved.
Don’t fall for it.
Being single on Valentine’s Day isn’t sad, it’s freedom. Let everyone else have their roses and overpriced dinners. You’ll be perfectly fine without them. Because real love is not about proving what people expect from you. It’s about loving yourself and being your own hero.
So, chances are you’re here because being single on Valentine’s Day has you feeling some kinda way, but hey, I get it. Books, movies, and pretty much the whole world love to act like finding “the one” is the real life mission. But being single on any day is absolutely awesome. Period.
8 Do’s To Enjoy V-Day Like It Was Made Just For You (because, duh, it totally is).
Soak In The Love Of Jesus.
Who says Valentine’s Day love has to come from a person? Let it come from The Person. His love doesn’t ghost, fade, gives no heartbreaks, no mixed signals, or wants you text back in 5 minutes. It’s constant, deep, and way beyond chocolates and roses. Spend time praying, reading your Bible, and just soaking in the warmth of His presence. You’re already fully known, fully seen, and fully loved. No one can beat that!
Plan A Galentine.
Your girls are your soulmates before any man. Call your girls, grab some food, and vibe. Laugh, gossip, and remind each other how amazing you are. Who needs a date when you’ve got the best friends ever?
Spend The Day With People.
Isolation can feel cozy until it starts telling you lies. Don’t sit alone overthinking. Link up with your friends, family, or even coworkers. Go out, have fun, and enjoy the company. Love is also in the people who show up for you daily.
Go On A Date. Who Knows What Might Happen?
COUGHS. Who says you can’t take a chance? Say yes to that coffee date, blind meet-up, or even swipe right for a dinner date. Life is unpredictable, and sometimes the best stories start with, “I wasn’t even planning to…” Worst case? It’s a funny story. Best case? You meet someone great. Either way, you win. And a win IS a win.
Be A Couch Potato.
Stay in, wear your comfiest clothes, order food, and binge-watch your favorite series. Sometimes, self-love is doing absolutely nothing. No pressure, no expectations—just you, your snacks, and a remote control.
Make A Vision Board.
Turn the day into a celebration of you. Cut out pictures, write your goals, and create a vision board for your future. You’re the main character here and it’d be a reminder that your life is full of potential.
Write Letters To Your Future Self.
Sit down with a pen and pour your heart out to future you. Talk about where you are now and where you want to be. When you read it later, you’ll see just how far you’ve come. Who knows? Maybe by the next Valentine’s, you’ll be smiling at how much your life (and love life) has grown.
Make It A Regular Day.
Not every Valentine’s Day needs to feel like a movie scene. Treat it like any other day. Go to work, run errands, hit the gym. No pressure, no stress. It’s just February 14th, there’s March 14th and there’s a 14th day in every other month.
8 Don’ts To Survive Valentine’s Day When You’re Single.
Don’t Whine About Being Single.
Nobody likes a broken record. Complaining won’t change anything and honestly, it’s not as deep as you think. You’re single, not doomed. Own it or change it but by all means, skip the pity party.
Don’t Be Weird About Other People’s Relationships.
Stop rolling your eyes at happy couples like love is a crime, and don’t act like you’re better off single. Everyone’s just winging it, single or taken. Focus on your own thing.
Don’t Wish For What’s Not There.
Daydreaming about a relationship or wishing for someone who’s not even thinking of you? Yeah, that’s a waste of good energy. Snap out of it and stay present.
Do NOT Text Your Ex.
Seriously, don’t. Not even a “Hey, hope you’re good.” They’re fine. You’re fine. Don’t ruin it. You left them in the past for a reason. Do NOT go fishing in old waters expecting fresh love.
Don’t Waste Money On Stuff You Don’t Need.
You don’t need to buy yourself a billion gifts just to prove you’re thriving. Treat yourself but don’t go broke trying to fill a void. That debit will humble you real quick. Remember, it’s just 14th. You gotta have money to fall back on for the remaining 14 days.
Do NOT Spend The Day On Social Media.
Scrolling through will only mess with your head. Log off, breathe, and do your own thing. You’re not missing as much as you think.
Don’t Settle Just Because…
Feeling lonely isn’t a good reason to entertain that “Hey stranger” text or say yes to a date you don’t even want. Desperate moves today only leads to regret tomorrow. Be patient.
Don’t Pretend You Don’t Care If You Actually Do.
If Valentine’s Day stings a little, that’s fine. Don’t force the whole “I’m too cool for love” vibe if it’s not real. Feel your feelings, but don’t let them run the show.
That’s all the mic-drop clarity you need. Ciao!
